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Men paying to learn to be appealing:

Most guys fumble their way through interactions with women and have no idea how sexual chemistry works.

Most guys link their self-esteem to the way women react to them, and it's the completely wrong frame to come from.

"I look at the world as a playground. When you talk to women, you're shooting hoops. Sometimes you get it in the basket, sometimes you miss, but you learn with every shot you take."

Tim says the biggest adjustment any man needs to make to be successful with women is internal: "You've got to have fun and make it fun for the girl."

Even before a man approaches a woman, she's made judgements about his social value. Rich men, rock stars and handsome guys already have this value, but the rest of us are left to slug it out using body posture, sappy dialogue and vocal tonality.

Give-aways such as talking too quickly and laughing at your own jokes tell a woman clearer than capital letters that you're needy. The vast majority of women prefer men who are in control, confident and funny.

Not everyone is naturally like that, so we teach you how to fake it 'til you make it.

Steve is taught to do this through a variety of "hot" topics and psychological games that on many occasions had women saying: "I've never met anyone like you before."

Mies ei saa siis olla missään tapauksessa oma itsensä, vaan hänen on muokattava itseään niin, että hän pystyy vetämään naisen tunteisiin vetoavan shown. Se tietenkin hävittää kaiken spontaaniuden ja tekee iskemisestä pelin, jossa uhreja ei säästellä, mutta naiset tykkäävät miehistä, jotka näyttelevät jotain muuta kuin mitä he ovat.

Kaiken tuon ohessa miesten kunnioitus naisia kohtaan häviää ja prinsiipiksi tulee: "onnistunko iskemään ja skoraamaan vaiko en". Mutta mitäpä sen on väliä - mies saa ja nainen saa näytöksen, jonka hän haluaa. Kaikki ovat tyytyväisiä.