Naiset eivät osaa lukea miehiä

Naiset eivät erota väkivaltaista miestä (via sixteenvolts):

In the circumstances, it isn't altogether surprising that I can now tell at a glance?with a fair degree of accuracy?that a man is violent toward his significant other. (It doesn't follow, of course, that I can tell when a man isn't violent toward her.) In truth, the clues are not particularly subtle. A closely shaven head with many scars on the scalp from collisions with broken bottles or glasses; a broken nose; blue tattoos on the hands, arms, and neck, relaying messages of love, hate, and challenge; but above all, a facial expression of concentrated malignity, outraged egotism, and feral suspiciousness?all these give the game away.

The nurses perceive things differently. They do not see a man's violence in his face, his gestures, his deportment, and his bodily adornments, even though they have the same experience of the patients as I.

This failure of recognition is almost universal among my violently abused women patients. Of course, my female patients deny that the violence of their men was foreseeable. But when I ask them whether they think I would have recognized it in advance, the great majority?nine out of ten?reply, yes, of course. And when asked how they think I would have done so, they enumerate precisely the factors that would have led me to that conclusion. So their blindness is willful.

Onko asia tosiaan niin, että naiset ovat kyvyttömiä erottamaan väkivaltaisia miehiä tai pelimiehiä ennen suhteeseen menemistä. Miehet näkevät toisista miehistä hyvin helposti, onko miehessä aineksia väkivaltaan tai onko hän mahdollisesti pelimies. Mistä naisten sokeus miesten suhteen johtuu?

Tärkeintä partnerissa:

When it comes to romance, women prefer someone who tickles their funny bone while men opt for those who catch their eye.

Both Spain and France suffered a gender gap. Thirty percent of Spanish men, but no Spanish women, looked for love online. In France, 40 percent of men but only 10 percent of women attended parties, bars and clubs to meet someone.

40 percent of Portuguese men rated intelligence over looks in a first encounter, no Australian men did so.

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