The word "slut" is a weapon women use against other women in an attempt to lower their competitors' perceived' perceived social value.
Women have a powerful interruption mechanism known to pickup artists as the anti-slut defense (ASD). Not only do women prefer to avoid having others perceive them as sluts, but they also want to avoid he discomfort of feeling like a slut. So a woman's highly calibrated ASD circuit acts as an interrupt mechanism to help her avoid this fate.
Be aware of others in proximity, as their presence alone may influence the behavior of the woman you are trying to kiss.
A woman will rarely do anything during the pickup that makes her feel responsible for what may happen between the two of you. To whatever degree she feels responsible, her anti-slut defense will be activated.
Thus she has a need for plausible deniability. For example, if you were to say to her, "Hey, let's go back to my place and have sex," she would have to say no, even though she wanted to say yes, because saying yes would make her responsible for what is happening—which she can never be.
But if instead you were to say, "Hey, let's stop by my place on the way o that party; I have to show you my tropical fish," now she has an excuse and plausible deniability to stop by your place and then—oopsie!—-have sex with you. "One thing led to another..."
This is why serendipity is so romantic. After all, if it was meant to bethen how can it be her fault? Who is she to deny Fate?
torstaina, huhtikuuta 16, 2009
The Mystery Method
The Anti-Slut Defense